Sunday, March 29, 2009
Sian
Sometimes, you really wonder for what you do it for, seriously.
If I had the power to decide on everything and something failed, I'll be responsible enough, even happy to accept criticisms, because it was my doing, it was my fault, and being accountable is certainly nothing to be afraid of.
However, when someone else was responsible for something and yet I have to bear the wrath of the failures, it's certainly very pissfying, totally unfair, and to a large extent, disappointing.
It's disappointing that people don't take responsibility on something they have the power on. It's disappointing that people want to have a share of the glory when something goes well, and yet no pride to resolve issues when something goes wrong. It's also disappointing for people to direct their wrath at the wrong people, and in the wrong way.
I'm being overly critical. But I believe that these incidents show the true side of people. If it happened to me, I'll criticise myself for being that, take responsibility, repair the damage done, scold myself, and want to change for the better. If it happened to other people, the impression usually stays deep on me, and unless a new patch comes along given the same situation, the impression stays that way, and tada, you're judged.
And I mentioned it before that there are certain people I can't stand. And the categories don't change, they are the same. Of course, typing this kind of dislike and complain stuff on my blog won't win me any favours, but it doesn't matter.
The true sides of people are painful (including my own).
lowtide blogged @
3:25 pm
