Friday, November 26, 2010
Hint
When people talk to you nicely with a very serious message underneath, that's when you should take the most notice. Because deep down the person is really angry and serious about something, yet choose to supress his/her temper to be a nice person while trying to get the message across.
However, some people just don't get the hint. When others do not blow up, they will just assume everything's ok or they have little fault, hence continue in the old ways. They only react when others blow up - and then complain and whine why people are so bad tempered, when in the first place, people already had bear with it.
Everyone makes mistakes. But some people get scolded more than the others. It is either the other party is really bad tempered, or these are the people who simply don't get the hint. Talk nicely, they don't care and assume everything's okay. Scold, they get sad why people like to pick on them. On the other hand, people who get the hint from nice tones change their mistakes quickly, and avoid aggrevating matters to transform into scoldings.
Both groups make mistakes, but the latter avoids scoldings by being sensitive to hints when tones are still nice.
I really don't know what to say.
lowtide blogged @
11:20 pm
